Simple little lessons in life...

As I was enjoying my morning cup of coffee this morning and reading over my emails, I found this little jewel (again). I have seen it a couple of times but each time I must have read through it too quickly to truly appreciate the beauty of it.

Life is truly a blessing given to us daily. How we choose to live it is totally up to us... without God in it, it is a dark lonely place. So take a little time to truly allow these little words of wisdom to soak in. Spend a little time with God today and thank Him for this day and this life.

45 Lessons in Life

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone…

4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.

8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first pay check.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion, Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘In five years, will this matter?’

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.

35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone elses, we’d grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come.

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.”

Why go to Church??

If you're spiritually alive, you're going to love this! 

If you're spiritually dead, you won't want to read it. 

If you're spiritually curious, there is still hope!  

A Church goer wrote a letter to the editor of a newspaper & complained that it made no sense to go to church every Sunday.  "I've gone for 30 yrs. now," he wrote, "& in that time I have heard something like 3,000 sermons.  But for the life of me, I can't remember a single one of them.  So, I think I'm wasting my time & the pastors are wasting theirs by giving sermons at all."

This started a real controversy in the "Letters to the Editor" column, much to the delight of the editor.  It went on for weeks until someone wrote this clincher:

"I've been married for 30 years now.  In that time my wife has cooked some 32,000 meals.  But, for the life of me, I cannot recall the entire menu for a single one of those meals.  But I do know this..They all nourished me & gave me the strength I needed to do my work.  If my wife had not given me these meals, I would be physically dead today.   Likewise, if I had not gone to church for nourishment, I would be spiritually dead today!"  

When you are DOWN to nothing......God is UP to something!  Faith sees the invisible, believes the incredible & receives the impossible!  Thank God for our physical & our spiritual nourishment!

MAY GOD BLESS YOU.

Encourging words...

This morning as I was enjoying my morning coffee and catching up on the morning Facebook news, several post had me thinking about how awesome God really is! As I read this post from my friend Monica, K-Love was playing 'How great is our God'.  I found great comfort and encouragement in it and in the moment I wanted to share.

Sometimes reality has a way of sneaking up and biting us in the backside. And when the dam bursts, all you can do is swim. (Meredith Grey)
Monica's response: I see this statement as very true, and then I see giving it to God, and I believe there is a place in Him where you can go from swimming, to walking on water. We choose what level of rescuing we desire, He can help us "swim upstream" ~ "backstroke" ~ "or walk on water" I am sure I have tried them all, and I would say "Walking on water" is by far the best ~ and brings peace, contentment, and pure joy through the storm.

God is always there when we really need Him and even when we think we don't need Him. He is the greatest life saving device I know. We all have felt like we were floating or drowning in situations too big for us to handle. He can and will rescue us... save us. All you have to do is reach out... cry out.

Do you know My God??

Why must I be so hard-headed?

Yesterday I had big plans!!! A day I envisioned to be filled with lots of fun, laughter and memories. None, zilch, not one of my plans happened. Needless to say, I was heart-broken. I was left to sit and stew over my sad state of affairs. I allowed lots of negativity flood my mind. I questioned myself as to why? Why was I trying so hard? Why did I even care? Why was I allowing all this to happen? Why do I even bother? Why? Why? Why? Yes I was basically pouting and having a good old fashion pity party for one. 

In the mist of this party, a visitor showed up at my door. Out of the blue, no prior phone call, no advanced planning.  One of my closest friends, whom I don't get to see much, popped in to see me. We sat and caught up on all the news for a little over an hour. As I walked her to her car, I told her I knew God had sent her by today and I explained to her why I felt that way. In acknowledging that, I felt the weight of the burdens starting to lift... that was until I walked back into the gloom and doom that hung in the air of my home. I allowed it to surround me again.

I carried and stewed over my feelings till I forced myself to bed at 2am. I awoke feeling drained and tired. How heavy my burdens still seemed this morning.  In my stubborn, hard headed way I was still stewing over how hurt I still felt and started to reminisce about the visit from my friend. I suddenly realized that she had shared with me some sad shocking news about a mutual friend and his family and that I had not taken the time to pray for them. How could I have not done this when they mean so much to me and they were in desperate need of my prayers? I immediately went to prayer for them and also asked God for forgiveness in not thanking Him for sending my friend to my rescue. After praying, my burdens are lifting. I am now able and ready to lay them in His hands and let him work it out.

I know that you may not see my friend's unplanned visit as God's work, but I do. She may not have realized it either. God knows our hearts. He knows our pain and struggles. He knows how to reach out to us to help. He often answers prayers before we even pray for them. Thank you God for loving me in spite of  hard headed stubborn self!!

Today I learned...

- that often times I am harder on myself than I need to be. That the guilt and anguish I often feel is really just the Devil playing with my emotions and keeping me held hostage from the true happiness that God wants me to experience.

- that the saying "forgive and forget" is a man made quote not scripture. That when I forgive it is for my benefit not the offenders. That when I forgive I am saying... "You owe me nothing. I owe you nothing. That you can not hold this over me anymore." I don't have to forget it but I have to be able to say "Enough! I will not let you or this memory hold me down!"

- that God loves me MORE than I love my own child! WOW that's a lot!!

- that when I ask for forgiveness of sins that it is truly forgiven. I do not have to keep asking forgiveness over and over. That I need to learn to forgive myself. To let it go.

- that if all I really have to give is 10%... that it is ok. If I have extra sometimes that is a gift that He can multiply more times than we can count.

- and lastly, that God knows my struggles, He knows my faults, and He loves me anyways.

Judge not...

Lately my mind has been on over drive, trying to sort through daily happenings, one crisis or another,  but tonight it take an unexpected detour. Not sure why but maybe I just needed to reflect on some of the relationships I have had in my life.

Growing up, I was not the most popular kid nor was I one of the prettiest. I didn't play sports nor was I a cheerleader. I didn't have an over abundance of friends but I had a few friends.  I was mostly known as my little brother's sister and still am to this day.  But tonight I wondered... why do some of the people who judged me so harshly then now want to be my facebook friend?  Children and teens are quick to judge. I guess its the silliness of youth or simply the not knowing how are actions then would reflect on them later.
 
We are taught in the Bible to not judge.  This had me thinking ...  had I pre-judged or passed judgment on some of the people in my life, because they were different from me in one fashion or other,  I would have truly missed out on some great relationships and friendships. My life would not have been as blessed and as full as it is today.  My life is filled with people of all races, life styles, cultures, religions, young, old, rich and not so rich. 

Now the biggest question is... how many relationships and friendships have I let get away because I was playing Judge? Oh the mind is a terrible thing when it is left to wonder.....

Blessing Received

As most of you know, we have been waiting for the day David was to be laid off... looks like this is the week. He will be applying for unemployment but we are so worried, that it will not be enough to cover the health insurance and the groceries. Thankfully we have a cabinet and freezer full but there are some things you just cant stock up on.  We have been praying and trying to not panic. We have faith that it will all work out somehow, but its still scary. 

Have you ever wondered if God really listens and hears prayers? I do and yet I know he does. Putting all your faith in Him is a hard thing to do sometimes even when you know in your heart that He has your back and He will make a way. Then there are times that if YOU are paying attention and if YOU are listening to God, He will show YOU signs that He hears your prayers that He has YOU covered!! He did just that for us!!

David had gone to pick a few groceries yesterday. While in line to pay for them, an elderly lady told him to put his money away that SHE was paying for the groceries. He kindly told her that it was ok he could pay for them. She looked at him and said, "If you don't let me pay, then you are taking away MY blessing." What could he say to that? Who was he to deny her that? He hugged and thanked her three times before leaving.

When he got home and told me his story, I knew immediately God was letting us know He was in control of this situation and that it was going to be ok. I also knew that God was working on David too. It is often times when your back is to the wall that God does his best work.  I also know that sweet dear kind lady received her blessing and she has her own story to tell others.

Some may say that I have this incident all wrong. That it was not an answer or sign. That it was just a little lady being nice. To those who doubt what I say, I say to you ... Then you don't know MY God! Would you like to meet him?

Life ....

Life is hard. Life is complicated. Yet life is a wonderful experience. Life is meant to be lived, explored and embraced. Life is filled with up and downs, highs and lows, hopes and despairs.

There is no set explanation of life or even instructions on how to live life, for it is different for each person.  How boring would life be if everyone lived the same life? Pretty darn boring.

We are given this life to live. We are only given so many days. It is up to us to use those days in ways that only we can decide. Yes, some have lives that were changed in ways they could not control. It is still up to them how they choose to live those days after.

The bible says we are not promised tomorrow. So how will you live your life today? How will you be remembered when your days have come to an end? Will you be remembered for your wealth? You bad ways? Your good deeds? Your smile? Your laugh? Will people even remember you?

No, we should not live our lives to please others. We should in fact, live our lives to please God and to live in such a way that others see Christ and His amazing love and grace through us. Does this mean you should be a bible thumping, corner screaming christian? Well hey, I say, that is between you and God.  There are lots of ways to share God's love with others. Even the smallest gestures can speak volumes!

So live your life! Enjoy each day you are given! Smile at a stranger! Hug your children and loved ones! Be extra kind to the elderly! Say "I love you!" more, even if you don't hear it in return!

Enjoy your day!!

New dawn, new day, new chapter, turn the page

Its a new dawn, new day, new chapter, turn the page. What will I write in my journal of life today?

Those two thoughts woke me this morning. After a rather long and difficult day yesterday and an emotional night, I woke with a lot on my mind. Comments and sayings began to flood my mind. Ones I have heard over and over all my life. I guess it was my minds way of saying ... you are dealing with a lot right now but it will be ok. Was it my sub-conscience mind or something else?

I gave up the battle of trying to go back to sleep, got up and said, "Ok God, I'm up. Let me start the coffee and we will talk."

Here are some of the "life lessons" I will write in my journal today.

- We live in a country of free speech. We live in a country where we are able to live and do as we choose.
- Life is hard and unfair sometimes, learn to deal with it.
- Sometimes you have to pick your battles and learn to let go of those you can't win.
- We all have our crosses to bare. Some are heavier than others.
- We can choose our mates, spouses, friends and our pets but we can't chose our families.
- Put brain in gear before putting mouth in motion.
- Wouldn't it be great if chat forums came with a sarcasm button?
- Wouldn't it be great in life if you could hit control, alt, delete and get a do over?
- There are people out there that are just clueless.
- Sometimes no matter how hard you try you can't make people love you and visa versa.
- There are people out there that talk out of both sides of their mouth.
- That it is often easier to forgive than forget.
- Sometimes when trying to spare someone's feelings by not telling the truth, it can actually cause more hurt and harm than the truth will.
- No matter how much we want someone to change, if they don't want too, it ain't happening.
- God made us different for a reason!
- It is not for us to judge! Judge not least ye be judged.
- Sometimes we have to learn our own lessons the hard way.
- That all a child/teen really wants is to be love, know love and feel love.
- All families are dysfunctional in one way or the other.
- Never under-estimate the power of "I'm sorry!"
- You have to endure the rain to enjoy the rainbow!
- A hug does a soul good!
- There was one perfect person and the crucified him!!

Yes life is hard and difficult at times. Yes we will face our own battles and demons today. Yes we all mess up. Yes some will forgive us, some won't. All we can really do is live each day as Godly as we can. Continue to pray for forgiveness. Pray for those we have hurt and those who have hurt us. Yes I know that is a hard one to do... trust me I know!! But it is what the Bible commands us to do.

So as I finish my coffee and my chat with God this morning, I will wash my face and face this new day, new chapter with a smile.